random words pt. 7

Spending to Investing

--Spending is wasting, while investing always involves a much more inspirational, progressive, venture. Control your spending in all areas of life and I believe you will find yourself a lot happier and fulfilled. It works wonders financially, but also physically and emotionally. Try this: The next time you're with a loved one..."spend" less time and "invest" more. That time will become more valuable and eventually you should be able to sit back and watch your love grow.

--The Asset

random words pt. 5

for her.

I know for every negative in the world, there's a positive.
Well, I'm bad news baby, and you, you're just the opposite.
You're painting a picture, and it's perfect--
Never am I cropping it.
Love is pain, but kill the morphine--
Never am I stopping it.

--The Asset

random words pt. 4

"I am who I was when you met me."

--I have always adamantly believed that a women will be with a man, hoping he has the potential to change into what she wants him to be--while a man will be with a women hoping that she NEVER changes.

That man usually never fully "evolves" into that specimen that the women feels he has the potential to become. Her "knight in shining armor". Her "Prince Charming". Those dreams are just that and usually have very little chance of materializing. Never try to mold that man into what you feel he should be. This leads to disappointment, arguing, and ultimately the end. If your first date was to the movies, is it really fair to expect anything grander for a second date? I understand it would be nice, but ASSUMING your dates will escalate in extravagance isn't wise. If his circle of friends includes a healthy amount of females, are you EVER right for asking him to dismiss them? You two being together does not make his circle smaller...you are an ADDITION. Embrace his friends, male and female alike.

I like to feel that I am growing as a man. Emotionally, mentally, and financially--purposely in that order. I understand that naturally my habits and reactions will change. I'm growing smarter with my money. I have more respect for "love". But essentially, my character traits have already developed by 22. I understand that I'm nonchalant. I understand I can be obstinate. I know that I have a hard time expressing myself emotionally. Those are traits you grow into, not out of. That probably won't change about me. Nor will they change about the "potential" man of your dreams. Understand that. I'm better than I was yesterday and tomorrow I will continue to improve--nonetheless--I am who I was when you met me. feel me.

--The Asset

random words pt. 3

The problem with being a selfless individual is that the minute you want for yourself, you're "selfish". feel me.

--The Asset

random words pt. 2

If people realize that others stay in your life only as long as they're needed, there would be a lot less "sad" moments...

--The Asset

random words pt. 1

Realizing "she" isn't "her" is the worst--but it worsens.
"I love you" transitions from reality to a rehearsing.
"Sweet nothings" are mutated to "hate texts" and cursing.
All drive is negated--you're stuck here reversing.
So it would seem she's only there cause she's been for so long.
We're not nearing the end babe--we've been here--so long.

--The Asset